A lot can change in one week.
Last Sunday night my husband and I had just returned from a Chris Tomlin concert at the Electric Factory in Philadelphia when we got the phone call.
"Jim, could you please come over. I've been throwing up and I feel weak..."
My husband raced out the door to his mom's house. She NEVER calls when she is sick. Actually she is rarely sick and if she is, we only hear about it after the fact. My mother-in-law is one of the most active, healthy, seventy-six-year-old ladies I know. She even likes to play basketball and soccer with our son, her seven-year-old grandson.
But like I said, a lot can change in one week, one day, one hour, one minute...
one moment.
Tomorrow members of our family will sit in the hospital and wait. Wait and pray as one who has helped so many is now going to need help. You see a blood clot broke loose from her aorta, a three-inch blood clot that we did not know was forming. As it broke free, it traveled, lodging in her leg. Praise God through the advice of my sister's husband who is a paramedic, Jim took his mom to the Emergency Room last Sunday night or she probably would have been home with her Lord and Savior right now. While that's not a bad thing for any believer in Jesus Christ, it is always
devastatingly painful for loved ones left behind.
My mother-in-law had an operation last Monday to remove the clot, but there is a little thing called "plaque" in her vessels that scraped loose when the clot traveled. And like a million little paint chips, the plaque lodged in the microscopic vessels in her left foot. Circulation has not returned. There is nothing that can be done to unclog the plaque. They are going to amputate below the knee.
My husband, his brother, his brother's wife and myself, sat with Jim's mom tonight. We listened to the surgeon who will be operating tomorrow. We talked. We asked questions. After explaining the severity of the situation and kindly answering all our questions, the surgeon left.
"They told me from the beginning that this could be a possibility... at least I will be able to drive... and work my sewing machine with my right foot."
I smiled at her
tenacity, her gumption, her get-up-and-go attitude. My mother-in-law has been in the hospital all week. Jim's sister who lives out of state has been at the hospital every day. My mother-in-law was supposed to get her hair permed last week. She was supposed to go to Bible Study. She was supposed to meet a few friends for lunch.
"Sue, weren't you going to read something to my Mom?" My husband's blue eyes caught mine.
"Oh, yeah. You're right." I grabbed my little travel Bible and sat in a chair between the hosptial bed and the window ledge lined with get well cards and a yellow-flowered plant.
"Mom, I read these passages the other day and I thought of you." I opened my Bible and read from Psalm 31 and 34.
"In thee, O LORD, do I put my trust; let me never be ashamed: deliver me in thy righteousness. Bow down thine ear to me; deliver me speedily: be thou my strong rock, for an house of defense to save me. For thou art my rock and my fortress; therefore for thy name's sake lead me, and guide me." Psalm 31:1-3"I will bless the LORD at all times: his praise shall continually be in my mouth. My soul shall make her boast in the LORD: the humble shall hear thereof, and be glad. O magnify the LORD with me, and let us exalt his name together. I sought the LORD and he heard me, and delivered me from all my fears." Psalm 34:1-4"The LORD is with me. He is always with me." My mother-in-law leaned into her hospital pillow and weakly smiled. Her eyelids fluttered shut, then opened again for a brief moment. It was time to leave and let her rest. The four of us surrounded her bed and gently laid a hand on this tiny, fragile woman who bravely raised my husband and his sister and brother on her own after her husband died almost forty years ago.
My husband poured his heart out to God in prayer.
Before we left, I made sure the phone was nearby on the table, the light cord within her reach, a fresh cup of water ready to moisten her dry, cracked lips.
"We'll see you tomorrow. Rest now, Mom. We're praying. We love you."